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Yo Mama
05-19-2008, 05:39 PM
any excuse to hurt our kid. check this out:

Second email from me to him about our daughter's open house:


So, what are we going to do about Cheyenne's Open House?

She is very excited for both of us to get to go. If she misses it, she is going to be very disappointed.

Can we not cooperate for her, on this occasion? We don't have to talk at all, or even be near each other, just exchange kids and go our separate ways.

Here's what I got back. Notice the exaggeration -- "three times" I contacted him. And I threatened to murder him. Funny that they supposedly aren't stalking me online but they can twist a friendly offer into a threat of murder.


What I would like us to do is to obey the courts custody orders, signed by his honor on Jan 10, 2008; which cover this situation and are very clear about what is to be done. I have typed exerts from those orders below. If you don't understand these orders, your attorney can explain them to you.
Further, this your third request is very alarming when viewed in conjunction with your threats of violence and murder against me and Amy recently published in an internet forum known as Amkon.net.
I can not allow myself to be put in a position where you and your friends can perpetrate violence and or murder against me. Stay away from me. Cease and desist your vendetta against me. Stop inciting your internet friends to violence against myself and Amy. Please remove the offensive postings on Amkon.net and other web sites where you ( and your friends) have discussed myself and Amy in such a felonious manner. Familiarizes yourself with the courts orders and obey them.
If I see you at the Franklin school open house I will assume you are going to carry out your threats of murder and violence against me and will call the police.

I'm waiting to hear from my lawyer, but I intend to go to my kid's open house at the times I specified, because she will be disappointed if I don't. He can clear the fuck out if he doesn't like it. I'm not going to even look at him, let alone talk to him, so he's the one with the problem, right?

My daughter has asked me several times if I'm going and she's been hurt enough by his not showing up for things this year, I don't want to let her down because he's a moron.

What would you do? If my attorney doesn't say otherwise, I intend to be there from 5 to 5:30 like I said I would be. he lives three blocks away, he can get his bit done by five and leave.

Interesting to note: the entire 10 years we lived together he couldn't spell my name right, but now he can. What a total ass.

gunner
05-19-2008, 06:29 PM
Sounds like a fucking drama queen to me. The fact that he was looking on here and found whatever the threats he is talking about, proves to me that he has no life and is baiting you. I would stay as far away from his as I could GN.

Yo Mama
05-19-2008, 06:32 PM
What about my kid, though?

The cops aren't going to do shit. The room will be full of witnesses who will be able to say I did nothing, didn't even go near him. It's the internet -- he could have posted that shit himself. Well, his cyberstalking slut could have; he's not got a good grasp of spelling and grammar.

No threats were made anyway. He just uses the cops to get his way. This will be the eighth time or so he's tried to have me arrested for nothing. If they did show, I could ask them to arrest him for harassing me with them, maybe.

It's just stupid. My kid deserves to have both her parents be proud of her work. He's a selfish, sad, little tiny man in a great big angry body.

vckums
05-19-2008, 11:33 PM
You didn't make any threats.

I mentioned a buss. And it's not a threat to hope an ac transit bus hits him. There's a big difference. That's a problem when you're a moron and don't grasp reality.

When is open house?

DeadSoul
05-19-2008, 11:40 PM
GN, I feel your pain. Literally.

It is an unfortunate thing that the kids are the ones that get all fucked up. Even when you try your damndest to do the right thing.
Get this. I emailed my ex ten days ago asking to talk about visitation (haven't seen my daughter in 1 year and 3 months). Never got a response even to this day.
This past Saturday, I had a bank issue and asked her to hold a check until tomorrow(Tuesday) until I got problem fixed. She emailed my 5 minutes later. Always on top of the money bullshit, but can't respond to discussing visitation. Fucking SOHAI!!!!!!!!!!!
Needless to say I got the bank thing taken care of right away on Saturday and thank God cause she already deposited the check. I could only imagine the shit storm if my check bounced.

forestlady
05-19-2008, 11:59 PM
Aw, geez, GN, not again. I remember meeting you thru the thread you posted on the other place, where Mr. Personality was being a complete jerk.

GN, I'm just so sorry to hear that he is still being a pain in the butt, especially to Cheyenne. The poor girl, how is a mom to explain to her teenage daughter that Dad is a complete asshole?

I don't know, I have to hand it to you and other parents who are in this situation. Yo're just trying to protect your kids and the ex refuses to cooperate - all I can say is, DOCUMENT this shit. It may be helpful one day.
Good luck to you, sweetie, you're a terrific parent, an amazing lady and a helluva lot of fun. If you need anything, we're here for you, sweet lady.

-FL

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 12:02 AM
You didn't make any threats.

I mentioned a buss. And it's not a threat to hope an ac transit bus hits him. There's a big difference. That's a problem when you're a moron and don't grasp reality.

When is open house?

Tomorrow night.

What I decided to do was say that I had a right to be involved in Cheyenne's school and see her work, so I'd be arriving at 5. That gives him from 4 to 5 to take her. He has to give her dinner before he brings her to the police station, so there's no reason for him to be there at that time anyway.

I've told him when I'll be there, so if he's really that scared of me (which he isn't, but he's nuts, so this is the straw he's grasping now) he can leave in plenty of time.

I'm not disappointing my kid, and I want to see her work. She's brought some stuff home throughout the year and I've seen a huge improvement in her writing, and she is actually really good at math -- I never was and hate math to this day.

The only person with a problem is him. He can't tell the difference obviously, between me venting to friends about his bullshit and his GF stalking me online, and threats. Neither one of them can see that if they saw something on this board that they didn't like, that they weren't invited here, they invaded my privacy by deliberately seeking the site out (as the nut and his wench have been doing for the past 3.5 years) and all they have to do is GTFO and problem is solved.

Nah, that'd be easy! They'd rather try to control me. Well, those days are done. I'm taking my stand right here and right now, and if you don't like what you see on this site, Tony and Amy, you've been told to leave previously, so why don't you get to it and go get an actual life instead of spying on mine? I hear that TV is really good this year.

The park is nice. So is going to the movies. Maybe you guys could go on a picnic. Or take a class -- basketweaving is a good choice for the nutty.

And, Forestlady, Thank you! My daughter is only 5. I can't tell her that her dad is a moron. I just hope when she's old enough, she can figure it out for herself. Poor little thing is in such turmoil, and all because the dumb ass won't let it die. He'd rather hurt her than swallow his ego and do the right thing. He's rather pathetic, actually.

DeadSoul
05-20-2008, 12:07 AM
I just hope when she's old enough, she can figure it out for herself. Poor little thing is in such turmoil, and all because the dumb ass won't let it die. He'd rather hurt her than swallow his ego and do the right thing. He's rather pathetic, actually.

Boy GN, if you replace all your "He's" with "She's", we would have the same fucking story. Pretty crazy.

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 12:08 AM
Insane bullshit knows no gender. :roll:

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 06:04 PM
Oh, brother, my lawyer just emailed me. Apparently tony and Amy have sent him certified mail, thinking that it is some kind of proof of service. my lawyer just ripped him a new one -- he's not about to stand in line for half an hour at the post office when it doesn't count as proof of service.

So, I bet it's another cease and desist letter from the crazy cunt. Funny, she's been lurking the forum since March, I put up the rant in March that she's claiming now is a "death threat," but she didn't get all bent out of shape until BD posted pix of her on the forum. Ego, anyone?

Fuck off, Amy, Tony. If you don't like what you see on the internet, go find somewhere else to lurk. You are not welcome here and the stuff on this forum is not coming down.

Grow the fuck up you big psycho babies. :P

Boondock
05-20-2008, 06:17 PM
What would you do? .


since you're asking i'll tell ya...what i would do is cease all comms from him...your kid(s) have some special school shit going on? go..have fun. support them. if they ask why daddy is not there just say he couldn't make it. i mean even though he is a total asshole don't mean you have to let the kid know that.

he seems to me that that is really what he wants anyway...just say fuck em. don't sound like he really wants to go anyway so stop all coms..


as far as him reading the posts on here...bnwuaahahahahahah

this is to him...i posted pics of your fat cunt whale of a girlfriend amy all over the net. by now there are hundreds of photoshops on at least 5 different forums...i think it is fantastic. the general concensus is she is a fat whore beeyotch.

figured you's like that.

call your lawyer on me for e- laughing at her...

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seriously gn. thats what i would do. stop all comms and if he misses shit he misses shit. the kid will get over it...trust me.

Boondock
05-20-2008, 06:20 PM
What about my kid, though?

. My kid deserves to have both her parents be proud of her work. He's a selfish, sad, little tiny man in a great big angry body.


gn, the kid will get over it...trust me. for the first few years after my ex left she was a real bitch and would not let me know when my son was having functions or made it very hard for me to go there and see them.
my son was upset but he got over it.

now things are fine but it took years...literally years.

i think the dad not going is the better option of the possible tension that would be slicing through the air if he does go. you have to think about that too.

if he don't go it's his loss. not yours and not your kids. just my opinion

Boondock
05-20-2008, 06:24 PM
amy...i just wanted to make sure you realize that literally thousands of people have seen pics of your whale looking ass. i think it is fantastic. the net is a wonderful thing for things like that. some of the comments i got were just wonderful...

not a single comment complementing you on your attractive nature but boy there was a lot letting me know how fat and fugly you are....

you gonna cry now

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 06:29 PM
It's a bit complicated, BD, it's a function we both should go to. I'm going. I told him I'd be there at 5 so he can clear out. He's gotta feed Cheyenne dinner, anyway, so he'd naturally be gone by this point. It's just insane that I try to be nice to the idiot and he takes it as a personal affront. he could have extra time with our son tonight and pull up his big girl panties and do the right thing for our daughter like I offered, but he just can't do it because his little boy ego won't allow it.

I have a right to see my kid's work and be involved in her school. Fuck him. I'm sick of this dog with a bone crap he keeps pulling. He is insane. Literally insane. I bet he hasn't started therapy yet, like the court ordered him to, either. He's worried about MY therapist -- someone I've seen since I left him. He keeps asking for her phone number.

He's not entitled to it. If the court thinks I'm not doing my therapy, they can ask me for proof. He can go sit and spin. Since I've voluntarily been in therapy on and off for most of the past 15 years, there's no need to give me a court order to go. He's the one with the issues and the reluctance.

anyway, BD, the pic you have was public domain, it was on a friend's MySpace for over a year, and there's not a damn thing they can do about it.

If the crazy stalker had just fucked off when I complained to her work last year, none of this would have happened. I only went ballistic when I found out her stalking activity had extended into stalking me in real life. She saw my mural here in March, then went to see it and took her son. I have evidence and witnesses, and if she wants to take it to court I have two words to say:

Bring it.

Bring it you whackos. this one will be your psycho swan song.

Boondock
05-20-2008, 06:37 PM
It's a bit complicated, BD, it's a function we both should go to. .


well that is the sad things when situations like yours happen. you both should go but in reality, maybe only one of you(you) can go. the child suffers but like i said, it may be better than tension you could cut with a knife.

just offering a different perspective here is all. just try to understand where i am coming from. i had years of a bad situation just like you. my ex is a crazy psycho bitch.

about the pics, i am not worried about it. you can post a pic of someones likeness but yo can't post a pic with their voice....no worries there.

just know that every day that goes buy, more people see the pic of the beached whale. it's a fantastic thing

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 06:46 PM
True dat. And if she doesn't want to see it, she can always go and get a life, as she has been invited to do so many times.

Boondock
05-20-2008, 07:14 PM
True dat. And if she doesn't want to see it, she can always go and get a life, as she has been invited to do so many times.


plain and simple here you are clearly the rational person. these situations suck when there is a kid in the middle.
both parents 'should' be able to see whatever is going on but in reality, both parents might not be able to.

are you required by the court to notify him of these things? either way, email him and tell him hey, cheyanne has a play on friday and it starts at 5. then you tried. no need to email back and forth and go through the motions....you did your part and if he wants to be a good father he would show up, let the kid know he is there and stay away from you.

sounds like in reality though that can't or won't happen.

not your fault. not cheyannes fault. and trust me when i say the kid will get over it. she will. she may be bummed for a small bit but take her out to dairy queen, get her a blizzard and get her mind off it and be done with it.

forestlady
05-20-2008, 07:35 PM
Where are these pictures of her? I wanna see!

Boondock
05-20-2008, 07:39 PM
Where are these pictures of her? I wanna see!


viewtopic.php?f=28&t=2002 (http://amkon.net/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=28&t=2002)

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 10:45 PM
Well HERE'S a big surprise: he wasn't there when i got there. I didn't think he could stick it out for two hours. There's only so much to see in kindergarten.

All bluster and no blow. If he has a totem animal, I think it's a puffer fish.

I don't know why I was afraid of him for so long. i guess the psychological torture had something to do with it. Two years of freedom, some therapy, and more than 50 domestic violence support groups, and I think I'm not afraid of him any more. yeah, he stresses me out and pisses me off, but he's so pathetic inside.

Slowly, day by day, I'm getting better and he's staying the same. It's quite sad. He has so much potential, but he's so busy trying to fuck other people over before they fuck him (because EVERY FUCKING PERSON ON THE PLANET HAS IT IN FOR HIM) that he just can't see reality. Only paranoia. If he acted like a normal human being, he might have a decent life and be a stand up guy.

I know, I know. If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

Ducky
05-20-2008, 10:59 PM
Woulda Coulda Shoulda

"If yer uncle had tits...he'd be yer aunt."

It worked out for the better eh? I'm glad!




:smokin: <<< my reserve smokie hee hee

1972
05-20-2008, 11:05 PM
I am a moron too
Yes I am, through and through
I do not lie; I only know true
There are many of us; our numbers are not few

I am a moron as well
Many of you could probably tell
I hope this means that you'll roast in hell
Either that or you'll be stuck in a very dirty, purgatorial motel

I am a moron from back in they day
My opinion means nothing; it holds no sway
I need no medication to keep the barking dogs at bay
Confession, confession, I think that Jasn may be really gay

I am legend
I am moron

:batman:

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 11:23 PM
Let's all hear it for the beat natterings of 1972, ladies and gentlemen!

1972
05-20-2008, 11:28 PM
Let's all hear it for the beat natterings of 1972, ladies and gentlemen!


Hey!

I wrote that in until 2 minutes.
It may not be gold but I thought it was pretty fucking good.

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 11:29 PM
Did I not ask for applause and not insert the ROFL smiley?

Sensitive much?

1972
05-20-2008, 11:33 PM
Did I not ask for applause and not insert the ROFL smiley?

Sensitive much?

You were being snarky!
As was I .
And yes, I am sensitive.
I think we are done here . . .

vckums
05-20-2008, 11:36 PM
That was pretty good kiddo! LOL til Jasn see's it.


I'm glad all went well.

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 11:38 PM
You were being snarky!

I think we are done here . . .

No, we are not done here. How do you know I was being snarky? Hmm? Are you spying on me or something? Where's the hidden web cam?

1972
05-20-2008, 11:50 PM
You were being snarky!

I think we are done here . . .

No, we are not done here. How do you know I was being snarky? Hmm? Are you spying on me or something? Where's the hidden web cam?

But I am not wrong am I?

Yo Mama
05-20-2008, 11:54 PM
Yes, actually you are. That was posted in honest admiration and you went and shit all over it.

See how you are? I'm crushed. :(

1972
05-21-2008, 12:11 AM
Yes, actually you are. That was posted in honest admiration and you went and shit all over it.

See how you are? I'm crushed. :(

Fuck, how am I going to fall asleep tonight?
And if you haven't noticed, I am my own worst critic.
Admiration? That sounds a bit fishy to me...
We shall see.

Ducky
05-21-2008, 12:17 AM
Fuck, how am I going to fall asleep tonight?

Step 1. Go over to my 'viagra' thread and click the 2nd vid.
Step 2. Practice

It tired Mr. Williams out? lololol j/k

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 12:38 AM
I need to amend this thread to : My Ex is a Racist Moron.

My five year old daughter apparently asked her dad if she could go to the art school I'd tried to enroll her in for this school year, rather than the public school she goes to that she hates.

She told me her dad said that the art school had mostly black kids. And they wouldn't like her because she was white.

WTF??? The school she goes to has over 700 students and there's maybe a dozen white kids in the whole school. The rest are Hispanic or Asian or black.

Little kids don't know color until it's put in their heads by jackasses like Tony. I can't believe that fucker. He is such a sad pathetic little man. Poisons his kid like that, carries on the stupid racist attitude he has himself.

I told her that color doesn't matter, that it's the kind of person that matters. That there were good and bad white people and black people and brown people, and their skin doesn't matter. It's how they treat other people.

So now she's learned racism from her "loving" dumb ass sperm donor.

He really is a sad little man.

forestlady
05-21-2008, 11:00 AM
Thanks for the linky to the pic. Wow! Just wow! Reminds me of
that old saying, "Beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes clear through".
And "I wouldn't fuck her with YOUR dick!".

Whoa, that is one ugly broad, a real Baby Hughie.

Boondock
05-21-2008, 11:50 AM
i have said it before but i will say it again. if i were in cali near you, i'd pull a hospital job on him and i wouldn't even charge.

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 11:52 AM
Sigh. Now he's going to say my felonious friends have threatened his life. :roll:

I wish you could hire a street therapist. Imagine if, instead of having someone whacked, they go kidnap the "victim" and fix his head before letting him go. :lol:

Boondock
05-21-2008, 11:54 AM
that would be kinda funny if he was scared of an e friend

don't worry tony. i am on the other side of the country..

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 11:58 AM
Oh, he's already said it. LOL

He also said I threatened him with murder, but I can't find the post. :roll:

Once a whackadoodle, always a whackadoodle.

Foxtrot Oscar
05-21-2008, 12:04 PM
I can't believe that this cawk is British.

Does he ever go whack there... er I mean back!

Fox

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 02:25 PM
He's not even a Brit! He's an Aussie with a grandparent's visa to live in the UK.

I'll bet it's expired now. I don't even know if he's managed to sell his house in London on the sly. If so, he's sitting on the better part of 3/4 of a million US dollars, the cheap racist fuck.

skunk
05-21-2008, 02:26 PM
He's a British WANKER? Nice.

1972
05-21-2008, 08:14 PM
I hope Nick isn't your EX
Eeeewww!

http://z.about.com/d/crime/1/0/l/7/noltenick.jpg

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 08:15 PM
Oh, RAAAAALPH!!! No, Tony's not that bad. Yet. Just internally. But he's not as old as Nolte either, so give him time to catch up.

1972
05-21-2008, 08:17 PM
Oh, RAAAAALPH!!! No, Tony's not that bad. Yet. Just internally. But he's not as old as Nolte either, so give him time to catch up.


Durrrrrr.

I was making a funny.

But you could take one for the team GN!

BARF!!

:batman:

forestlady
05-21-2008, 10:59 PM
1972! You rock, love your posts! :alien:

1972
05-21-2008, 11:01 PM
1972! You rock, love your posts! :alien:

Yes, I am very under appreciated.
GN abuses me all the time.
Thank you FL.

Yo Mama
05-21-2008, 11:24 PM
He must like it because he keeps coming back for more.

I think he has a crush on me, but don't tell him I said so. :P

1972
05-21-2008, 11:26 PM
He must like it because he keeps coming back for more.

I think he has a crush on me, but don't tell him I said so. :P

Or what GN is really saying is that she is secretly into me and trying to deflect it and make it look like it is I who is hot for her! Though I had thought of building my own compound so I could get me a lot of ladys to fawn over me and worship all things Brian . . .