An Open Letter to My Ex and his GF

[Yo Mama]

Tony, Amy,

Yes, I'm using your names. Just so you know I meant for you to read this. Which, if you are, means you managed to track me down from the sparse clues on ATS, where I know you were user MajorDumbAss. Mockery of my username, how original of you.

I just wanted to be sure that when you find AmKon, that you get an earful. Rather than having to eavesdrop the way you have in the past, I think it's best if I'm just right out in the open so we can have a dialogue if you so desire.

Listen, I want to move on with my life. It's not good for me, or for the kids, to keep having these idiotic battles over stupid shit. Tony, I know you only want custody of the kids to get out of paying support, and also because it's a way to control me. So let's not pretend anymore that you give a damn what is in their best interests. If you had their best interests at heart, you would have let Cheyenne stay in private school, instead of lying to them, sabotaging her financial aid and then forcing her to go to a school she is miserable in, all because it's only three blocks from your house.

If you wanted the kids half the time, you'd have taken Cody when I was sick instead of telling me that I need to give you advance notice.

You don't even believe your own bullshit, so now that the custody trial is over with and you've got your way, let's drop the pretense, shall we? As much as I loathe you, I would still rather be able to work together for the children's sake. So if we can drop the pretenses and be honest with each other -- I know you can be honest if you put your mind to it, as out of practice as you are -- maybe we'll be able to do what the kids need.

Amy, listen, you got Tony. I don't want him. you're welcome to him. So why don't you take him, and go on with your life and quit following me around on line. You got my husband, you got his marijuana business, you will have my kids half the time, isn't that enough? Do you have so little going on in your own life that you have to live mine through internet forums? Could anything be more pathetic?

Do us all a favor, and go find something else to do with your time. Perhaps you'd like knitting. At least then you'd be doing something productive with your time instead of following around an HIV+ single mom of two that was badly abused by her narcissistic ex and is just trying to pick up the pieces of her life and get on with it.

So, here's the deal: you two go live your own lives now and quit spying on mine. Because I'm not going to live my life under your control anymore, and that means that this forum is one you are not going to drive me away from.

My life is really not that interesting. Surely there is something better on TV to watch?

Go on, get on with your lives. Mine is mine, you can't have it anymore.

Good luck with each other. I just hope that when the two of you finally melt down that the four children involved don't have to witness it or be affected by it unduly. With your track record for selfishness and discussion of inappropriate subjects with them to date, it's probably too much to ask for, but do try to think of the kids and leave them out of it. Do you really want them to grow up to be as twisted and unhappy as the two of you are?

I don't. They deserve to be happy. Our job is to make their childhoods a little bit better than our own were. Not to make them repeat the hell we all lived in as kids and forcing them to carry our shit forward as if it's theirs. That's just not fair.

So let's all get on with our respective lives, OK?

Kthxbai.

[mojo]

There isn't a snowballs chance in hell of anyone driving you away from this forum while i'm still breathing GN.
Thats a promise.

:beatdown:

[Yo Mama]

mojo, vckums, a General couldn't ask for better friends.

Luv you guys.

[Lexion]

Jesus.

People have nothing better to
do, than track other people;
on-line ?

How do they pay the fucking
bills ?

My tax dollars ?

If so, I'd love their names and
addresses, so I can turn them in.

Anyone that draws ANY Govt.
assistance and has a computer
on-line is a fucking thief and liar.

I earn my shit.

Regards,
Lex

[mojo]

:serenade:


:lol:



:D

[Yo Mama]

No, Lex, she works. He "works."

I'm on SSDI but I have low income housing and can afford internet because of a bundle I got. Plus child support helps a little bit with the other stuff so I have a little money a month to spend on extras -- internet being an extra.

Now you hate me. :cry:

[Yo Mama]

so I just get a copy of an email that this woman sent her ex -- who happens to be a friend of mine. She BCCd me. I called him and asked if I should read it.

Turns out she's accused me of hitting their son Sam and smoking cigarettes. I don't smoke, and I don't hit kids - I think it's wrong.

Then it turns out she "found out" about my mural -- the one I have a picture of in my PhotoBucket account, for posting here -- and took her son to see it.

So this cow has had my husband for three years, but she still can't leave me alone. She's still stalking me online.

It's really creepy and I am going to try to find out if I can get the feds on her ass.

And just in case you're reading this, Amy, I don't read your emails. Don't contact me and keep your psychotic ramblings and accusations to your nasty ugly self.

Kthxbai.

[vckums]

It's harassment plain and simple. I know your local PD sucks, but when I had the online chick calling my house the PD called her and told her to knock it off. The officer was really kewl about it. See if OPD has an internet crime task force.

[Yo Mama]

It won't make any difference. They got called on it in the evaluator's report and the judge was all, "ho hum."

Even if they tell her to knock it off, do you actually think the crazy bitch will? I don't. She's bipolar, and medicates with booze and drugs. She isn't sane. She's obsessed with me.

Well, when she starts stalking me in person, I'll have a nasty little surprise for her.

Oi! Amy! Get a fucking life already. Basket weaving is always nice, so I'm told.

[vckums]

Oi! Amy! Get a fucking life already. Basket weaving is always nice, so I'm told.


Amy, basket weaving isn't fun. I'll tell ya whats fun. See these shiny marble...Yeah look! Shiiiiiiiiiiny marbles....See how they roll.....Follow them Amy....*tires screechings* *THUNK*.....*THUD*....*screaming*.....*clapping* Oops my bad. Shouldn't play with marbles on the freeway.

[Yo Mama]

Yeah, maybe I should post a mockup of a mural in the fast lane of the 101 right before SFO and send her out to look at it. :lol:

[JiveTurkey]

Tony and Amy,



Please visit the site as I have no one else who I wish to perma-ban.



Thanks,
Jasn


P.S. If what the general says is true (and I believe it is), you are both fucking pathetic.

[vckums]

Yeah, maybe I should post a mockup of a mural in the fast lane of the 101 right before SFO and send her out to look at it. :lol:

Damn Skippy! I got marbles!

[Yo Mama]

Jasn, you da man!

[Yo Mama]

BTW, Amy, if you REALLY want to live my life for me, you have to have HIV too. Let me know -- I'll be glad to send a syringe of blood over for your personal use.

Nutjob.

[gunner]

I just dont understand people, especially people that are so crazy they have time to follow someone around the net harrasing them. Unfortunately in this country our justice system is so flawed what do you do about it?

I have a friend that works in juvenile court here, they do all the custody hearings etc. The judge is more interested in making sure that lane isnt spelled out, it needs to be abreviated as Ln but it cant have a period after it. Stuff like that, he is more interested in making sure his little world of control over his employees stays intact then actual evidence in cases. He rules more on opinion then anything else, which is so fucking wrong. He does what he does for status, not for contributing to society, but for control. I believe that alot of people that work in government are there for the wrong reasons, little men/women so power hungry they will do anything for it. It makes me want to vomit.

I hope they dont try to go after you here, they probably wouldnt be welcomed with open arms to pick on everyones favorite member.

[Yo Mama]

What'll likely happen is the psycho bitch will track me down through here -- keeping in mind she has a new baby and a five year old son, as well as a full time job with the prison system in Contra Costa County. How she finds time to track me, I'm not sure, though at one point in 2006 I had hard proof she was doing it from her work computer.

I complained to her work and she lied her way out of it and they didn't do anything to her.

They'll lurk and print my posts out and they'll eventually show up in a court document as "proof" I'm an unfit mother.

It's all hearsay, and the judges ignore it, but they still do it. They even took posts of mine off another forum and gave them to my daughter's private school to discredit me.

They're pretty fucking lame, IMO. I just don't get why they can't move on. We're supposed to be disengaging, for the kids' sake, which i would be only too glad to do, but this pair are nuts. I think my ex has narcissistic personality disorder, and she's just dog fucking crazy.

I look at it this way: I'm not going to hide anymore, I'm not going to leave a forum because they've found me again, and I intend to let them know exactly how I feel about them when they come snooping around.

Probably not a good idea, it'll just make them escalate, but I only put this stuff here, and if they snoop out here, they get what they fucking deserve.

BTW, Tony, has the IRS contacted you yet? They have copies of the support hearing transcript and the order after hearing. Have fun with that.

[Yo Mama]

Well, since I highly suspect that Amy has found this site, and you've been reading my rant, you should know a couple other things.

First, how do you know I'm saying the truth here, Tony? Maybe I contacted the IRS and maybe I didn't. I said I did because I'm trying to teach you a lesson about spying on people.

Secondly, no doubt you are going to use this in court to try to prove once again that I'm as bad as you are. The difference, my dear mad man, is that for the sake of the kids I can and will get along with you around them. What I say on the internet though, are my true feelings about you and your abusive shit. Guess what? I can keep the two separate. I know you can't, and that's why you think I can't, but not everybody is like you.

Just like a pathological liar thinks everyone else is lying when they actually are telling the truth, just because the liar is always lying. One of us is a liar, and one of us always tells the truth. Which of us was found guilty of perjury again? Oh, yes, YOU.

You're the liar, Tony. I don't have any need to lie to you. I don't give a shit about what you think about me anymore, you can't hurt me in court, and frankly, you're not worth the energy it would take to make up and remember bullshit.

I just want you to leave me alone.

Also, as I mentioned before, my mental health "issues" are very minor, consisting of the least of the depressive spectrum disorders. Yours are very serious. As Dr. Crawford told you, stop worrying about my mental health and deal with your own.

You HAVE started therapy haven't you? If not, why not? Don't you want your kids half the time as you insist, or is it really that you just want control of me and the kids are just the means to an end. I mean, if you REALLY wanted the kids half the time, you'd be glad to take one or both of them for extra time, as I have offered, instead of standing on the "three weeks notice in writing" nonsense you've pulled out of the custody order. an order, by the way, that IS NOT IN EFFECT YET BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T COMPLETED YOUR REQUIREMENTS.

So, my advice is to quit worrying about me and what I'm doing, which is what I'm supposed to be doing, as I've been doing it all along, and concern yourself with your own issues, which I suspect consist of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Would you like some links, or will you go cherry pick for yourself, like you did about the croup?

[Boondock]

tony, you're a fuckwad.....

[Yo Mama]

Everybody knows it but him. Sigh. :roll:

[Tetsujin]

Tony and Amy,

You are not welcome here. You both are sad excuses for human beings. Why put someone through such hell? You seem to have no respect for yourselfs other people or your own children. This is the mother of your children and they love her. Perhaps you should find better things to do with your time then harass this lady like get a life. If not for yourself just think of your kids.

Yours in truth,

CTG

P.S. You both are fucktards :ban:

[the titan]

GTFO!


And for you two dumbasses, that means GET THE FUCK OUT!

[Yo Mama]

Watch it, you guys, he thinks you hate him. He said so in his crazed email. :roll: